He knows who is on the right side, he knows what you had suffered, he
knows the one who is behaving like a victim is actually an oppressor and
wants to continue the same, still he is asking YOU to UNDERSTAND and
accept the oppression like you had been doing till now.
He understands that you are tired and can't take it anymore still he is trying
to convince you that if you could take it earlier why can't you take it
anymore?
He can see what you had gone through and what is waiting for
you still he is asking you to take it as there is no other way because he
can"t tell the oppressor the truth that he/she is an oppressor because that
can bring a havoc and like anyone else he is choosing easy.
The one who always understood his situation is made to understand once
again for completely unreasonable unjustified and invalid reasons
otherwise she would be responsible for hurting an opressors's narcissistic
ego which eventually would make that person claim himself/herself a victim
so she is made to give up on her basic rights because there is someone
entitled to dictate his/her terms and no one is bothered to do what is right
because everyone chooses easy over right.
This might be sounding like a story of a woman and people around her but
this mindset is there everywhere in the society, this is the painful reality of
society, every home, every relationship and professional workplaces etc,.
We don't correct the one who needs correction we try to convince the
person who is easier to handle and can be either manipulated or
threatened easily.
We are not trying to do right we just try to manipulate things in order to
maintain peace and avoid any kind of bitterness or discomfort.
We are not bothered about who is the victim and who is the oppressor,
we just know who would forgive and adjust and who would create the
scene and make us look villain. We are ok if we are destroying someone's
mental health/peace just to maintain peace.
At the end of the day everything should fall into the right place even if it
costs someone's falling apart in pieces.
Don't do this anymore choose right over easy.
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