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Sameer Gudhate presents the Book Review of The Reluctant Doctor: Stilettos to Stethoscope by Balesh Jindal.

  • Writer: Sameer Gudhate
    Sameer Gudhate
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Imagine this: you pick up a book thinking it’ll be another doctor’s memoir — maybe filled with medical jargon, some predictable patient tales, a touch of sentimentality. But within a few pages, you realize you’re not just reading about medicine. You’re reading about life — messy, beautiful, heartbreaking life. That’s what happened to me with The Reluctant Doctor: Stilettos to Stethoscope by Balesh Jindal.

 

Balesh begins her story far from the dusty clinic she’d eventually call her world. She was young, stylish, and restless, her stilettos clicking across club floors, her dreams pinned on London, neon-lit and promising. And then — life turned the wheel, as it often does. Instead of champagne nights and a global career, she found herself in Kapashera, a village most of us wouldn’t be able to point to on a map. The premise is simple yet profound: what happens when your path is nothing like the one you imagined, and you’re forced to carve meaning out of it anyway?

 

The writing struck me first. It’s not dressed up with unnecessary flourishes, but there’s a warmth, a clarity, almost like sitting across from a friend who isn’t afraid to tell you both the ugly truths and the moments of quiet grace. The pace is unhurried — and I mean that in the best way. Jindal doesn’t rush her stories; she lets them breathe, lets you linger on the details of a waiting room, a whispered confession, the ache in a villager’s silence.

 

And what characters! Though it’s a memoir, the patients she writes about feel like living, breathing presences. A teenage girl navigating shame. A mother clinging to superstition instead of science. A farmer undone by new wealth. Through their stories, you don’t just see medicine — you see the jagged edges of society, tradition, and change. What stayed with me most wasn’t just how she treated illnesses but how she addressed wounds you can’t see: marriages crumbling, teenagers lost in confusion, women weighed down by secrets. She wasn’t just a doctor; she was a counsellor, a listener, sometimes the only safe place in someone’s world.

 

The book is structured almost like a mosaic — vignettes spanning decades, woven into the backdrop of India’s transformation. One moment you’re in the throes of a medical emergency, the next you’re in the quiet ache of an ethical dilemma. It’s not a thriller — there aren’t “plot twists” in the conventional sense — but it’s a page-turner all the same, because real life, when written honestly, has its own gravity.

 

Themes of sacrifice, resilience, and the cruel tug-of-war between superstition and science run through the pages. I found myself pausing often — thinking about how even today, in 2025, we still read stories of patients turning to quacks, still see the tension between faith and evidence, still realize how fragile access to real healthcare can be. At the same time, there’s a celebration of small victories: a child’s fever breaking, a woman daring to choose her own future, a village slowly shifting its beliefs.

 

I’ll be honest — there were a few parts that felt slower, where I wished the pace tightened just a little. Some anecdotes circle back on themselves, lingering longer than needed. But then again, maybe that’s the nature of a life lived in service: days blending together, healing not always in a neat arc.

 

Personally, this book reminded me of the quiet heroes we often overlook. We binge medical dramas with their glamorous surgeries and high-stakes rescues, but here is a doctor who traded in her own glamorous dream to wrestle with muddy roads, epidemics, and heartbreak in Kapashera. It made me think about the ways we measure success — not by titles or locations but by the depth of lives we touch.

 

Would I recommend it? Absolutely. If you’re a fan of memoirs, if you’ve ever been curious about what medicine looks like outside the polished corridors of city hospitals, or if you simply enjoy stories that pulse with raw humanity — this one’s for you. It sits somewhere between When Breath Becomes Air grounded narratives — heartfelt yet practical, honest yet poetic.

 

By the time I turned the last page, I felt both heavy and hopeful — heavy with the weight of the stories she carried, hopeful because of the resilience she showed and inspired in others. I’d give it a strong 4.5 out of 5. Not perfect, but then again, neither is life. And maybe that’s the point.

 

This isn’t just a doctor’s memoir. It’s a love letter to service, to community, to the strange ways destiny writes our stories. And it left me with this lingering thought: sometimes the life we didn’t plan for is the one that makes us whole.

 

 

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