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Shanta Gokhale’s Shivaji Park – Dadar 28 — A Reader’s Reflection by Sameer Gudhate
We often think we know a place because we know its address. We know the roads. We know the buildings. We know where to get tea. We know which corner is crowded in the evening. We know where people walk, where children play and where politicians once stood behind microphones. But knowing a place is not the same as knowing its memory. That distinction is at the heart of Shanta Gokhale’s Shivaji Park – Dadar 28: History, Places, People. And perhaps that is why this book
Sameer Gudhate
15 hours ago5 min read


When a Doctor Gets It Wrong, Who Gets to Judge? Doctors Are Not Murderers by Debraj Shome & Aarti Heda — Read & Reviewed by Sameer Gudhate
There is a strange contradiction in the way we look at doctors. When a doctor saves a life, we call it a miracle. When treatment fails, we sometimes call it negligence. Somewhere between those two extremes, we forget something rather obvious. The person standing in the white coat is a human being. Doctors Are Not Murderers by Dr. Debraj Shome and Dr. Aarti Heda comes from that uncomfortable space between medical responsibility and public judgment. It is a collection
Sameer Gudhate
2 days ago5 min read


When Home Becomes a Place You Have to Escape From — Not Without My Daughter by Betty Mahmoody, Read & Reviewed by Sameer Gudhate
There are some books you finish. And there are some books you escape from. Not Without My Daughter belongs to the second category. Because while reading Betty Mahmoody's account, I kept thinking about one frightening question: What happens when the person you trusted most becomes the person you have to protect your child from? Betty travels from America to Iran with her Iranian-American husband, Moody, and their four-year-old daughter, Mahtob. It is supposed to be a
Sameer Gudhate
3 days ago4 min read


When “Advice” Becomes Another Name for Control — Guilt Trip: The Weight of Being Ladoo by Rajani Tewari, Read & Reviewed by Sameer Gudhate
There is a particular kind of guilt that doesn't arrive with an accusation. It arrives disguised as concern. “Are you eating too much?” “You should lose some weight.” “You're getting too ambitious.” “Don't you think you should spend more time with the family?” “Why are you so sensitive?” And because the person saying it is often an aunt, a parent, a colleague, a friend—or simply someone who believes they are entitled to an opinion—we are expected to accept it as
Sameer Gudhate
4 days ago5 min read


What If the Part of You That Never Fit In Was Never Meant To? — Your Difference Is Your Strength by Kris Ferraro, Read & Reviewed by Sameer Gudhate
Some of us spend a surprising amount of our lives trying to become easier to understand. We adjust how we speak. We soften our opinions. We hide the things that make us unusual. We learn which parts of ourselves are acceptable in a particular room—and which parts should probably stay outside it. And sometimes, without even realising it, we start confusing belonging with becoming someone else. That is the territory Kris Ferraro enters in Your Difference Is Your Strength.
Sameer Gudhate
5 days ago4 min read


When Bollywood Becomes the Dream, Who Decides Where the Story Ends? — In Love with Bollywood by Sourabh Mukherjee, Read & Reviewed by Sameer Gudhate
There is something almost irresistible about a young person who refuses to give up on a dream everyone else considers unrealistic. Especially when that dream involves Bollywood. Because Bollywood has spent decades teaching us to believe that somewhere between struggle and success, there will be a turning point. A phone call. An audition. A lucky break. A stranger who notices us. A game show with a life-changing prize. And perhaps that is why Bejoy Chowdhury—Joy—feels so
Sameer Gudhate
6 days ago4 min read


The Conversation You Keep Postponing May Be the One You Need Most — Mary J. Nestor’s Say It Now! Say It Right! — Sameer Gudhate on the Art of Difficult Conversations
There are conversations we avoid because we don't know what to say. And then there are conversations we avoid because we know exactly what we want to say. The second kind is often harder. We rehearse the words in our heads. We imagine how the other person might react. We worry about sounding rude, confrontational, insensitive, or simply being misunderstood. So we wait. Tomorrow becomes next week. Next week becomes never. And sometimes silence costs us more than an
Sameer Gudhate
7 days ago4 min read


The Phone Is Ringing. But Nobody Plugged It In — The Velvet Hotline by Arsh Verma, Read & Reviewed by Sameer Gudhate
I have always found something slightly unsettling about telephone calls. Maybe it is because you cannot see the person on the other end. You hear a voice, but you don't know what the face behind it looks like. You cannot tell whether someone is speaking calmly because they are genuinely calm, or because they are trying very hard not to fall apart. Sometimes there is a pause. Sometimes there is silence. And sometimes, you realise that the person on the other end may
Sameer Gudhate
Aug 315 min read


I Opened What the What?! by Nipun Jain & Mohit Mamoria for the Trivia, but Found Myself Thinking About Curiosity says Sameer Gudhate
I have a confession. I like books that make me stop reading. Not because they are boring. Quite the opposite. Because sometimes I am reading a page and suddenly I have to look up and say, “Wait. What?” That happened quite a few times with What the What?! And, honestly, that is probably the best possible reaction to this book. I came to it expecting a book of strange facts, trivia and questions. I got that. But somewhere between one bizarre fact and another
Sameer Gudhate
Aug 304 min read


Can We Ever Escape the Identity We Inherit? — Am I a Dalit? by Vijhay Sundar K.G., read and reviewed by Sameer Gudhate.
There are some questions that are asked because we don't know the answer. And then there are questions we ask because we are afraid of what the answer might mean. Am I a Dalit? belongs to the second category. Vijhay Sundar K.G.'s novel begins in a world where caste is not an abstract idea discussed in textbooks. It is present in families, relationships, social behaviour, humiliation and the choices people are allowed to make. But what makes the novel interesting is that
Sameer Gudhate
Aug 294 min read


Parashurama Before the Axe, the Rage and the Legend — Kevin Missal’s The Axe of Rudra, Reviewed by Sameer Gudhate
There is a strange problem with legends. We meet them too late. By the time we hear their names, the transformation has already happened. The doubts have disappeared. The mistakes have been edited out. The person has become a symbol. Parashurama is one of those figures. We know the axe.We know the anger.We know the warrior. But who was Rama before he became Parashurama? That is where Kevin Missal's Parashurama: The Axe of Rudra caught my attention. The book begi
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Aug 284 min read


Dr Mrittunjoy Guha Majumdar Wants Us to Question Reality. Sameer Gudhate Takes a Closer Look at The Universe Is Pranking Us.
There is something deeply comforting about certainty. We like knowing why things happen. We like clear answers, predictable outcomes and explanations that neatly close the conversation. We live in a time that makes this even easier. Algorithms predict what we might want next. Search engines find answers in seconds. Experts speak with enormous confidence. Even social media has turned complicated questions into simple opinions. And then comes a book with the rather mischiev
Sameer Gudhate
Aug 274 min read


When Love Moves On but the Heart Remembers — Parallel Heartbeats by Ashritta Saran, Reviewed by Sameer Gudhate
Some love stories end. Some simply learn to exist differently. That is what stayed with me after reading Ashritta Saran’s Parallel Heartbeats. Ash and Aaryan find each other when they are young enough to believe that loving someone deeply should be enough. But growing up has a way of complicating even the purest emotions. Ambition enters. Distance enters. Circumstances enter. And eventually, two people who once felt like each other’s entire world have to discover who they
Sameer Gudhate
Aug 263 min read


Messi, Greatness and the Stories We Tell About Success — Messi Mania by Luis Miguel Echegaray, reviewed by Sameer Gudhate
We know how the story ends. That is perhaps the biggest problem with reading about someone like Lionel Messi. We already know the boy from Rosario becomes one of the greatest footballers the world has ever seen. We know about Barcelona. We know the goals, the trophies, the records. We know the heartbreak with Argentina. We know the World Cup finally arrives. We know Paris, and then Miami. We know the images. We know the ending. And when we know the ending, we tend to
Sameer Gudhate
Aug 255 min read


When Love Has Secrets, How Well Do We Really Know the Person We Love? — The Almost Perfect Wife by Anubha Gupta | Sameer Gudhate
We often imagine that the most dangerous secrets in a relationship are the ones someone tells us. Perhaps they aren't. Perhaps the more dangerous ones are the secrets someone successfully keeps from us. That thought stayed with me while reading Anubha Gupta's The Almost Perfect Wife. Because beneath the murder mystery, the twists and the ancestral house in Mashobra, this is really a story about something much more uncomfortable: how little we may actually know about the
Sameer Gudhate
Aug 244 min read


The Simplicity Trap by Rohit C. Nambiar — Sameer Gudhate on the Courage to Let Go
Why do organisations find it so easy to add something—and so difficult to remove it? A new process is introduced. A new layer of approval appears. Another product enters the portfolio. Another report is added to the calendar. A system that nobody particularly likes continues to exist because “this is how we have always done it.” And slowly, almost invisibly, complexity becomes normal. That was the thought I kept returning to while reading The Simplicity Trap by Rohit Ch
Sameer Gudhate
Aug 224 min read


Dear Zahira, With Love by Sachin NG — Sameer Gudhate on Love, Loss and the Human Cost of Partition
When a Border Separates Two People, What Exactly Does It Fail to Separate? Some love stories are about two people trying to find each other. Dear Zahira, With Love by Sachin NG is about something more difficult: two people trying to remain connected when history has decided they belong on opposite sides of a border. That distinction stayed with me. Because we often talk about Partition through numbers—millions displaced, families separated, lives destroyed, borders re
Sameer Gudhate
Aug 204 min read


After Us by Akshay Chopra — Sameer Gudhate Asks: What Happens When Humanity Is No Longer the Smartest Species?
We have spent years asking whether artificial intelligence will destroy humanity. Akshay Chopra's After Us asks a more unsettling question: What if it doesn't? What if the intelligence we create is benevolent? What if it solves problems we couldn't? What if it understands us better than we understand ourselves? What if it doesn't need to hate humanity to make humanity irrelevant? That possibility stayed with me long after I finished the book. After Us begins with id
Sameer Gudhate
Aug 193 min read


The Practicing Mind by Thomas M. Sterner — A Conversation with Sameer Gudhate About Why Mastery Begins When We Stop Being Afraid of Being Beginners
The Practicing Mind — Are We Practising Patience, or Practising Impatience? We often say that we want to become better at something. A better writer. A better athlete. A better parent. A better professional. A better version of ourselves. But there is a part of the process we don't talk about enough. The part where we are still bad at it. The part where improvement is so slow that we begin wondering whether we are improving at all. The part where we have to do the
Sameer Gudhate
Aug 185 min read


Why Are We This Way? — Ami Ganatra Explores the Hindu Shastras, Sameer Gudhate Explores the Book
We have all been there. We know Ramayana. We know Mahabharata. We have heard the Gayatri Mantra. We have grown up hearing words like Vedas, Upanishads, Puranas, Smritis and Shastras. We visit temples, celebrate festivals, perform rituals and sometimes confidently discuss "our culture". Then someone asks a very simple question: "But where does all this come from?" And suddenly, the confidence disappears. We know the stories. We know the practices. We know the names. Bu
Sameer Gudhate
Aug 174 min read
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